"The greatest fine art of the future will be the making of a comfortable living from a small piece of land."
-Abraham Lincoln

Happy Memorial Day


Eulogy for a Veteran

By Unknown Author

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight,
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die.

Octopus

I finished Middle's octopus.  I used a pattern out of Tiny Yarn Animals: Amigurumi Friends to Make and Enjoy.   By Tamie Snow.  

I'm about half way through my shirt and should have it done for the graduation.  If I have time I may sew up a skirt to go with it.   But that's a pretty big if. 

I've finally finished all the cleaning that I need done for the party, except for the bathroom.  It's amazing to me how quickly two small children can destroy a clean bathroom.   I finally have some time now to relax, watch some Cheers reruns and do nothing, absolutely nothing.  :)

The Best Laid Plans...


After DH left this morning to get Middle Brother from the airport, I managed to get Gran out the door to her doctor's appointment and get Oldest to school.   Then I cleaned out the rest of the spare room, the desk in the "office" and that was no small job believe me, and somehow kept the other two littles off of the plastic covered floor in the dining room.  
Gran's doctor's appointment went well, by the way.   They found an irregular heartbeat but it wasn't anything that they were overly concerned about.  Apparently it was well within the benign arrythmia range.   They also found that the veins in her legs are weak which is why she had the swelling (no clots, thank God) and they want her to wear support hoes.  They also prescribed her some medicine for GERD which is a blessing because there have been a couple of nights where she's woken up vomitting or unable to breathe because of the acid reflux so hopefully this medicine will take care of that.   All in all for a woman of 86 she's in very good shape.   Better yet, she even LIKED the doctor and alot of her fears about doctor's offices were eased.  
DH came home with Middle Brother about an hour after we got back from Gran's appointment.   So DH spent most of his day chatting with MB and running out for a hair cut and to do some shopping.   It wasn't until about 10 pm that he finally got around to the floors.  Needless to say, they aren't nearly as finished as either of us had hoped.  
This is what I'm looking at right now...

He wore himself out hanging with MB and after about 15 minutes of "floor work" he passed out.   You can't hear him, but he's snoring like a freight train right now.


This is the current state of the floor. 

I suppose I had better go and get him off to bed before he ends up with a sore neck or back.  At least we have one row down, something is better than nothing after all. 

New Floors and One Very Scary Little Dude


With three days left until Nanny and Pampaw come up from Florida and 4 days left until graduation and 6 days until Youngest Brother's graduation party....DH decides that now is the time to rip up the floors. He started last night, at about midnight (he has the worst timing sometimes) which meant that we had to clear all the furniture out of the way. Which is where the very scary little dude comes in.

See we inherited this house from DH's great aunt and some of what was her's is still left here, we uncover it from time to time and usually it makes for a nice little surprise. Well this guy was a surprise but I wouldn't describe it as a "nice" surprise.
This is who we found.....


He was completely tucked away and I had never noticed him before.   He is a wine bottle cork.   There is a lever stuck in the base of his skull and if you press it his jaw goes slack open and his eyes roll back in his head. How charming.  My first reaction was "get rid of him".   DH: "But he's kind of fu.."  Me: "Get rid of HIM".   DH: "But don't you think he's sort of funny?"  Me: "No, no I don't.  He's terrifying...throw him out.  Throw him out right now."   In the end I won out and he is now sitting somewhere in the county dump.   Good riddance. 

We finally did get the carpets in the dining room pulled up.   We went from this....

and this...

To this...

We've got the concrete scrubbed and the plastic down and probably tonight or tomorrow we'll have the actual floors down which I'm really excited about even if the timing is bad.

Tomorrow is going to be a hectic day as well because DH is going to pick up Middle Brother from the airport, I have to get Oldest off to school, then I have to pack up the other two munchkins and DH's grandmother so that we can take her (Gran)  to the doctor.   Her leg has been swelling off and on for about a month and starting last week it's been swollen and we haven't been able to get it to go back down.   She's a little bit nervous about the whole ordeal, she HATES doctors and she's also scared they are going to find something seriously wrong so any of you out there who have left over prayers, she could surely use them about now.  

Earlier in this post I mentioned that DH has a bit of bad timing....well, he isn't the only one.   On top of trying to clean the whole house, paint, put in new floors, plan a party, and still cook and take care of the kids, I've also started three new projects.  Two crochet projects and a cross stitch project. Last week I realized that I needed a new top to wear to the grad party but my fabric stash is running low and I didn't see anything there that I wanted to use for a shirt.   I thought about running out to the fabric store but with the new floors and the party we're trying to cut down on our spending for the month.  Instead I decided to dig through my yarn stash and I found some suitable yarn and a free pattern off of Ravelry.  Since this one is for the weekend, it's going to take top priority.  
The second project is actually 3 projects in 1.   The kids found an amigurumi octopus that they wanted me to make for them out of one of my crochet books.   I've got the first one almost finished, I just have to make the rest of his legs.   Then I have to make two more little guys for the other two kiddies.   Come to think of it, I still have to finish the other kitty cat for Oldest's friend and I have to get that done before school is out. Yeesh.  
The cross stitch project is fortunately one that I can take my time on.   I found it off of Amazon for a very reasonable price.   It's cute and whimsical and small so it should be a lot of fun to work on.   I also bought a beginner cross stitch kit for Oldest and have ordered one for Middle.    We have been tackling those projects bit by bit, as time allows. 

Well, that's it for now I suppose.   I'll be sure to post some pictures of the floors when they are put down.   Try not to think about that first picture before you fall asleep tonight...who knows what kind of horrible nightmares that guy will induce.

The Last Knit....

When knitting becomes an obsession...

A New Blog

I've mentioned on here before that I've signed up to review books from Booksneeze.  At first I thought that I would just add the book reviews to the homesteading and crafting stuff on this blog but I changed my mind.   I've decided that the book reviews, since most of these books are neither craft nor homesteading related, would be better placed on their own blog.   So I created Lamplight Reading which will be the permanent new home for all of my Booksneeze book reviews (say that five times fast) from now on out. That way, those who are interested in the book reviews can easily find them and those who are not so interested in the book reviews can skip them altogether.  

A Little Rant



I have been sitting on a tack of sorts the last couple of weeks and it's starting to give me a blister ;)   It actually started with what could've been an interesting article that my husband found online.   The article was discussing a study that showed "Atheists and Liberals have higher IQ's"   Now before assuming that I'm taking a turn towards the political...that's not actually what I'm trying to do in this case.   It's more the study itself that I take issue with, not whether one political affiliation or religious viewpoint is smarter than another.  

What irks me is that this thing has become almost viral with so many people accepting it as proof of something that they've wanted to hear for a long time but the study itself has several very serious flaws that seem to be simply ignored for the most part.   For one, the differences between the groups were mariginal at best.  6-11 pts.  And while that is statistically significant, it's hardly a huge gap and therefore could easily be a case specific finding, as in there is a good chance, with the difference being so small, that the same difference may not be found in subsequent studies.   Before declaring this study as "law", we should wait to see what the follow up studies, if there are any, have to say.  

Another consideration is that, and this one actually favors the atheists in the study, is that the scientists who performed the study foolishly looked at the iq's of two different age groups.   The first being adolescent atheists and the second being adult believers.   You can't compare the IQ's of adults and teenagers without first taking into account whether or not the adults went to college at the very least.  Some people will claim that IQ is fixed, but the fact of the matter is IQ is far from fixed.   To some degree (about 40%-80%) of our IQ is genetically predetermined but the rest (20%-40%) is determined by our environment and our experiences.  The more we experience, the higher our IQ.   Doing things like going to college or graduate school actually works to increase our IQ's even in some cases simple things like life experience can increase our IQ's.   You cannot, with any degree of scientific accuracy, compare the IQ's of teenagers (whose brains have not even fully developed yet) to that of adults.  

And the final, and most grievous in my opinion, error is in regards to the liberal vs. conservative model.   Again, my problem with this isn't so much the idea that the two groups could have different IQ levels, my problem is in the way the test was performed and subsequently labeled.    Here's the issue, the study itself says that it ignored all other political associations except views on charitable giving.   It forgoes any association with abortion views, any association with immigration law views, gun control, gay rights, etc.   Yet, when you attach such politically weighted terms as liberal and conservative, in the public mindset these things are implied.   When people hear the term liberal or conservative they immediately associate an entire political ideology, they don't think of it simply in terms of charitable giving.  So right off the bat you are going to have a skewed interepretation of these results by the general public (something I've already begun to see).
Secondly, the define liberals as having "concern for genetically non-related people and support of private resources that help those people".   The problem here is that, despite the apparent arbitrary labeling of liberal or conservative by the authors of this study, it's actually conservatives who believe in using private resources to help those in need.   Liberals tend to believe in using public resources and public funds.   This is going to skew their results because conservatives and liberals alike are going to read and respond to the idea of using private resources, not simply resources in general, to benefit others and are going to respond accordingly with conservatives being more drawn to using private funds.   You also have to take into account the fact that several other studies have shown that when it comes to charitable contributions conservatives and religious people tend to donate more, by a drastic margin, than atheists and liberals.   Which means that if you are basing your assumption on who cares more about genetically non-related people by how much they give to those who aren't related to them then conservatives and the religious win out.   Which essentially works in direct opposition to their previous claims about atheism.   And this is why trying to get a handle on who is smarter than whom is such a tricky business.  There are alot of variables and contradictions.   Not to mention the fact that the authors of this study where, in my mind, downright irresponsible when using political labels to describe something that was in reality not political at all but merely reflective a person's generosity.   If they had wanted to attach a liberal and conservative label to it, they should've followed that with the term "giver".   Liberal givers scored higher in IQ than conservative givers would follow their actual method much better than the broader, politically weighted terms that were used.  

Possibly what irks me the most is the fact that the authors of this study more than likely knew that it wasn't the most responsible thing to do to use political labels for a non-political study.   They more than likely attached the labels the way they did to garner more attention and therefore more money and more claut to themselves and their study.   Scientific study these days is more about playing politics than it is about getting out the facts it seems.  Having spent a good several years of my life in the field of psychology and after reviewing hundreds of studies in my time, I can honestly say that the mistakes made here resemble more what you would expect to see in the results of experiments done by undergraduate students, not that of professionals in the field.  


And now, with the joys of the technological age, we also get to experience intellectual and culture libel where even the worst studies spread like wildfire and are soon taken as an absolute.   It just irks me.   For my own personal guess, I don't think you can assign an IQ level to an entire diverse group of people, with the exception of groups that specifically look for individuals with high IQ's like Mensa.    There are simply too many variables involved and all you have to do is research a bit to see the overwhelmingly contradictory outcomes from other studies that have tried to link IQ to ideologies, political classes, races, and belief systems.   Those things tend to encompass groups that are simply too diverse and therefore the collective IQ cannot be accurately measured.

Well, now that I've written that book and gotten it off my chest, I'll be heading off to get dinner started.  Just remember that old axiom "you can't believe everything you read".